Blogs Are Stupid

Doesn't anyone believe in Dear Diary anymore? What happened to the joy of putting actual pen to paper? And why does every ordinary Jane and John think they can write well enough to burden the world with their scribblings? It’s a mystery that badly needs solving. My first entry contains my thoughts about blogging and will set your expectations. The rest will probably be stream of consciousness garbage, much like you’ll find on any other blog. Perhaps we will both come away enlightened.

Sunday, April 27, 2008


When I watch my boys play baseball, I bring my camp chair and set it up next to the bleachers. I'm aware that this makes me seem anti-social, but when I have two and sometimes even three games to sit through, my back just can't take the agony that multiple hours of bleacher sitting imparts.

And though one would think that the amount of padding on my backside would provide ample shock absorption, one would be egregiously wrong about that.

So Saturday, I placed my chair strategically behind home plate and settled in.

Soon, another gentleman set up his chair beside me. I found out that he was the grandfather of one of Diminutive One's teammates, visiting from out of state. Shortly after he sat down, his grandaughter took up residence in his lap and began a steady stream of chatter.

He was very patient with her. I truly admired his werewithal in not only listening, but also responding at appropriate intervals, in a manner that suggested he was thoroughly riveted by what she had to say. And afterall, what kid doesn't love the idea that someone is hanging on their every word? She beamed from the attention being lavished on her. It was very sweet.

Once the game started, I turned my attention to the field, effectively tuning her out.

After a while, there was a lull in the action as a new pitcher warmed up, and my ear wandered to the conversation being had between grandfather and granddaughter. I couldn't help but smile to myself as I witnessed Grandpa getting himself in way over his head.

"Grandpa, is that your belly button?"


"But why does it stick out like that?? Mine doesn't do that"

"Well, you have an innie, some people have outies."

"Brother has an outie, but his doesn't stick out that much. Yours in huge! I'm going to poke it."

Brief silence as poking ensued.

"I like poking your belly button Grandpa!"

"Please don't do that any more dear, it hurts Grandpa."

"But why? It doesn't hurt when I poke my belly button. It tickles!"

Poke, poke. A small grunt of discomfort from Grandpa.

"Well, um....that's not really my bellybutton."

Stunned silence.

"What is it Grandpa?"

Poke. Grunt.

"It's a, um...(quietly) hernia."

"A (loudly) HERNIA? What's THAT?"

"Well,'s a boo-boo."

"A boo-boo! Do you want me to kiss it Grandpa?"

"NO! No, that's okay. It's a boo-boo on the inside."

"What kind of boo-boo? Do you need a band-aid? They have Barbie band-aids at the concession stand. I got one when I skinned my knee. You're a boy, so you probably wouldn't want a Barbie band-aid, but they have Pokemon too. Do you want a Pokemon band-aid Grandpa?"

"No, no, that's okay dear. A band-aid won't help for this kind of boo-boo."

But it was too late. She had already bounded off his lap and was striding purposefully toward the concession stand. Her lilting little girl voice could be heard clearly above the din of the crowd as she called out....


Grandpa turned a shade of deep scarlet and slouched in his chair. I couldn't supress a small chuckle of amusement. He glanced at me and rolled his eyes.

"Well," I said, leaning over, "At least she didn't announce to the whole world that you have your period and need some Crampons."

He laughed, and with that, we formed a truly significant bond; that of adults who have been humiliated and chagrined by proclomations of an exceedingly personal nature on the part of the pint-sized.

Ahhh, kids. If nothing else, they keep us truly humble.


  • At 3:57 PM, Blogger SUEB0B said…

    You can trust kids to pretty much ALWAYS announce what you don't want them to...

  • At 4:32 PM, Blogger flutter said…

    in the immortal words of my niece

    "Mama, your butt is really big, can you move it a little THAT WAY?!"

  • At 5:10 PM, Blogger KT said…

    This is just plain funny! Thanks.

  • At 6:45 PM, Blogger Middle Girl said…


  • At 6:46 PM, Blogger Pgoodness said…

    LOL. the pint-sized do have a way, don't they!

  • At 7:51 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well, thank goodness it was a hernia. You had me worried for a sec there. Remember now, some of us come from incredibly dysfunctional families ; )

  • At 7:51 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well, thank goodness it was a hernia. You had me worried for a sec there. Remember now, some of us come from incredibly dysfunctional families ; )

  • At 8:37 PM, Blogger S said…

    still chuckling over here.

  • At 9:43 PM, Blogger Fairly Odd Mother said…

    I audibly gasped over this:
    "Well, um....that's not really my bellybutton."

    Thank GOODNESS he was talking about his hernia. Of COURSE he was. What else could it possibly have been??? (hanging my head in shame)

  • At 10:07 PM, Blogger Amie Adams said…

    I enjoyed this as only a woman who spent five hours running the concession stand at the ball field today can.

    I don't think your chair makes you anti-social. Any REAL baseball parent would understand. ;)

  • At 4:06 AM, Blogger Kathryn in NZ said…

    Thanks to youngest DD there was NO WAY my 40th birthday was going to pass by unnoticed....sorry, I meant unannounced... to everyone we met that month.

  • At 9:48 AM, Blogger Sensitiva McFeelingsly said…

    Oh my God, I totally thought she was poking his penis. I was DYING!

    I was so glad when he said it was a hernia, whew, that could have been way more uncomfortable. :)

  • At 3:26 PM, Blogger Notes and letters to myself.... said…

    We refer to our son as Radio London -- there is nothing sacred in our home that he doesn't talk about:)

    You made my day:)


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